bubbykins and i went to SM makati awhile ago to buy the rest of the baby stuff that we still don’t have. we weren’t there for too long, since i can’t walk around too much. so after buying santi’s stuff, we decided to ride the ever-reliable MRT to get to Trinoma and buy some food for my in-laws.
i was shocked when i saw the line! there were about 300 people queueing, and just when we were already near the entrance, they announced over the PA that they wouldn’t be letting people in for the meantime since it is overcrowded already! you should have seen the look on my face. but being the trooper that i am, and since it was raining very hard, i decided to just endure it all and wait. it took about 20-30 minutes (or so it seemed to me) before they started letting people in again. but i didn’t complain. i was just relieved, and thought that, at last, i could have a seat already since my legs were about to give up on me already. when we got to the train in the area where senior citizens and pregnant women were supposed to be, there were more able-bodied young women seated, and me and this other pregnant woman standing up. NO ONE EVEN OFFERED TO LET US SIT. not a single person did. this girl in front of me even stared at me and just kept staring. then i thought, is this the modern pinay? i remember being taught that we should always give way to the old, handicapped and pregnant women. i was aghast to see there were more young people seated and more old people and even pregnant women standing!!! i am dismayed. and out of my frustration because of the pain in my legs and my tummy starting to contract due to the physical exhaustion, i burst into tears. i buried my face on my bubby’s chest and cried. i wasn’t feeling sorry for myself, but i was quite frustrated how people can look at 2 very pregnant women and just sit there, stare and do nothing. is this how youngsters are raised now? is this what you call the modern pinay?

Reading this wants me to kick all those 'modern pinay'. Shame on them!
Alam mo sis, napansin ko rin yan nung nagbakasyon ako sa Manila. Kakainis at nakakalungkot. Marami na palang di marunong gumalang sa mga babae at matatanda. Grabe, you're even pregnant but no one cared to let you sit. Sana naman di sila maging ganyan dito sa Baguio pagdating ng panahon.
Sana nga sis. I guess women now are taking "empowerment" to the wrong level. Minsan nakakalimutan na yung roots natin, sa sobrang modernized ng culture. Sad lang talaga.
Akala ko nanganak ka na!
Ay nako, been in that experience too. Dakilang commuter kasi ako noh.Paminsan nga sa bus, wala silang paki-alam. Pag yung kunduktor nanita, dun lang may magbibigay. Pero diba, kelangan ba may manita at may magsabi para magbigay sila? Ibang-iba na talaga ang culture natin ngayon!
And I agree with Golden, shame on these girls! Nakakahiya sila! I just hope and pray na hindi maubos yung mga taong marunong pa magbigay at magpaubaya.
totoo yan nicquee, yun nga yung nakakafrustrate dun eh. kelangan pa bang i-remind na pag may nakita kang matanda, handicapped, buntis o may bitbit na baby eh konting galang at consideration naman at magbigay ng seat di ba?!? wala lang. bihira na ang mga ganun ngayon. nakakadismaya talaga.
reading this makes me so disappointed of people now a days. where's the empathy?? ( tsk, tsk)
nakakalungkot isipin na kung kelan naging matalino ang mga bata, tska naman nawala ang magagandang asal… *sigh*